OkCupid Review

OkCupid remains one of the more popular dating sites for younger generations because you can get the full online dating experience for free. Just because it's free doesn't mean OkCupid skimps on features, and they're even pushing online dating to another level by offering an app that sets you up on a blind date.

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The Good

Filter searches based on what matters to you

OkCupid's search tools allow you to focus in on what is most important to you in a potential partner. You can filter your searches by location, interest, background, and lifestyle characteristics. If there is something that doesn't fall under one of these categories, you can include it in a keyword search. And if all your searches are returning the same old faces, you can always switch your search to show new members only. The site also allows you to save custom searches to run at a later date. And those are just the search options that are available with the free membership; an upgrade to A-List will allow you to filter by body type and personality as well as other traits.

Finding matches is easy

OkCupid works with you to help you find potential matches that fit what you are looking for. The site offers a compatibility test with questions you can answer publicly or privately. You select your answer, the answer(s) you would accept from a potential match, and how important that question is to you. The more questions you answer, the better the matches that OkCupid sends to your account will be. This can be a big help if you haven't had much luck finding matches by reading profiles alone. If you want to show up on member's newsfeeds, make sure to update your profile or answer new questions regularly. Any edits to your member profile will usually land you on a compatible member's homepage newsfeeds.

Communication is simple and natural

OkCupid offers several different ways to communicate with others on the site so that you can choose the one that feels most comfortable to you. If you just want to say hi, you can send a quick message. And if you want to have a real conversation, OkCupid offers instant messaging. Another nice thing about talking with others on this site is that it lets you know how likely the person is to respond to your message based on their previous actions. Tools like these can facilitate good conversation and help you find great matches.

Crazy Blind Date

Crazy Blind Date works exactly like you think it would — one user chooses a place and time for a date and another person agrees to join them. You can't see profiles; instead, you only see a scrambled version of the person's profile picture. This is a unique option for those looking to add a bit of fun and spontaneity into their dating lives. Once you agree to the date, you can chat with the other person, and after the date, you can review it on the site. That data is used to help return better results in the future.

Totally free online dating

While all major dating sites offer some sort of free service, few can compete with OkCupid. On this site, you can view other users' photos and complete profiles. You can also send and receive messages, enabling you to have a complete online dating experience without paying a cent. Those who like the idea of online dating but don't want to pay for it will definitely want to check out OkCupid.

Awesome upgrades

Those who do choose to upgrade from a free membership to a paid subscription won't be disappointed because A-Listers will get access to a ton of really cool features that can't be found on any other dating site. For example, you can browse profiles invisibly and see if your messages have been read or not. Ads can be annoying, but with A-List, you won't have to deal with them. Also, photo timestamps can help you be sure that you're seeing current photos of a person that reflect how they look now, not ten years ago. The best part of all this is that all these upgrades come at less than half the cost of most dating site subscriptions.

Mobile dating

With OkCupid's mobile app, your search for the perfect match doesn't have to end the second you step away from the computer. Available for both Android and iPhones, this app allows you to upload photos to your account and change your account settings. You can also search for matches and view complete profiles from your phone. If you find someone you really like, you can easily add them to your favorites list. Tools like these make it easy to stay connected to your potential matches wherever you happen to be.

The Bad

No way to increase your profile's visibility

On OkCupid, there is nothing you can do to improve where your profile shows up in the searches. Though only offered by about half the major dating sites out there, this is a nice feature to have because it can pull a lot of attention to your profile and help you get a lot more views than you might otherwise get if you were just another name in the search. If increased profile visibility sounds interesting to you, you may be better off looking at some other sites.

Must pay to change username

OkCupid does not allow members of their free online dating service to change their username. If after you create your account, you decide that you really don't like the name you chose, you have two options. One is to cancel the account and create a new one, and the other is to upgrade to A-List, a paid service offered by OkCupid that includes several upgrades, such as the ability to change usernames. One of these methods costs money and the other a lot of time and hassle. When it comes down to it, changing a username is simple to do and it would be nice to see OkCupid offer this option to all their members without charging them.

Email and social media support only

OkCupid does not have a number listed on their site for users to call if they have questions or need help with their accounts. Instead, users must contact the company via email or social media. This will still get you the help that you need, but it may take a little while to get a response. Phone support would be a superior option, and it would be nice to see OkCupid add this to their support offerings.

The Details


  • One Month: Free
  • One Year: Free
  • Six Months: Free
  • Three Months: Free

Age Groups

  • Most Popular: Ages 25 - 34
  • Second Most Popular: Ages 35 - 44
  • Third Most Popular: Ages 45 - 54


One Month

  • Free

Three Months

  • Free

Six Months

  • Free

Twelve Months

  • Free

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